When the chase is over, he’s gone. Now what? He chased you for weeks sometimes — even months — and now he’s leaving?
Why do men do anything to be with you before having sex, only to turn around and leave after?
Here are three answers to why he stopped calling after having sex with you… and the antidote:
1. It’s chemical.
After sex, women’s oxytocin levels increase, while the closeness and cuddling lower men’s testosterone. He unconsciously wants to do something productive for himself to raise his testosterone levels.